No grieving parents should be exposed to the brand of callous, wicked and inhuman comments attending the death of Tinubu's son on social media. I was not shocked, not because I'm inured to death, but because social media has become predictable.
I saw and read similar posts when Mallam El Rufai lost his daughter. Back then I was shocked and my flabber was morbidly gasted because of the personality of people making those comments, some whom I held in not too low regards.
It's not a result of today's instagratification society. It's who we are. Okay, some of us. When Awolowo lost his son to a car accident, among those jubilating were Yoruba Akintola supporters and other political adversaries. Is it not instructive that the man was not even allowed, out of compassion, to mourn, with his wife and family, his tragic loss.
Some have elevated schadenfreude to the level of weaponry and when anybody whose politics or ideology is different or opposed to their own suffers a personal loss, they launch missiles instead of mouthing the platitudes of condolence and vicarious support.
On Nov 2, 2017 4:12 PM, "Mobolaji Aluko" <alukome@gmail.com> wrote:
Prof Oyekanmi:May your tribe increase! You have expressed my recent email in a different manner.At one time, I was attacked for coming from a privileged background by a person whose CHILDREN were now from a privileged background. I reminded him that no one determines who his parents are, and it takes only one generation of opportunity hard work and success to move from under-privilege to privilege. I pointed out that my paternal grandfather was a stark illiterate farmer.I wish that Prof. Falola did not suppress free speech, so that we can know the boors among us, assaulters of human sensibilities under the guise of social outrageBolaji Aluko
On Thursday, November 2, 2017, 'profoyekanmi@yahoo.com' via USA Africa Dialogue Series <usaafricadialogue@googlegroups.com > wrote:--Those people that pray for evil things to happen to the rich should remember that when a person points one finger to another individual , the remaining nine fingers point to the sender of the message. In Yoruba adage that indicates 'back to sender' whether for good or for bad. Hence, it is always better to wish other people well so that good will return to the sender.Sent from my HTC----- Reply message -----
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Subject: USA Africa Dialogue Series - Of evil and wickedness
Date: Thu, Nov 2, 2017 2:22 PMThe kind of evil thinking and wishing you identified must also be placed within the context of the helplessness that confronts those who have been transfixed by what Mbembe called the banality of power. Poverty has made Nigerians so helpless that they offset their impotent rage through incessant curses and especially rejoicing over the misfortunes of those who hold them in thrall by their offensive, and indeed obscene wealth. I suspect that even those who are so religious would secretly be happy that 'the rich also cry", and feel the pain of mortality and the general human condition.I have encountered this almost everywhere in Nigeria, people rejoicing when misfortune befalls politicians and the mighty. The retort is usually "Olorun ti mun won" (God has trapped them!). And this mindset can be further placed within the overall helplessness that constantly turns to God as the final arbiter in a prejudiced battle that places the rich over the poor.Go to Bodija, Oyingbo, Oshodi, and even the Ariaria markets, and you will see thousands of people--Nigerians--who practically embody rage. This rage is often turned on one another. And when the government trumpets anti corruption without jailing anyone, their only redress is found in letting off suppressed rage through rejoicing in the misfortunes of those who oppress them.Mbembe has written about how the obscenity of power generates hilarity. We also need to write about how banality of riches give rise to prodigious and boldfaced regime of evil thinking and wishes. In Nigeria, the poor want the rich, the wealthy and the powerful to die, simple.Adeshina Afolayan, PhD
Department of Philosophy
University of Ibadan
+23480-3928-8429On Thursday, November 2, 2017 1:47 PM, Toyin Falola <toyinfalola@austin.utexas.edu> wrote:
--I have rejected postings commenting on the death of Tinubu's son in a negative manner.I thought that all religions and cultures preach that one must never rejoice at this kind of misfortune. I was also taken aback when some people wished Buhari dead when he was sick.Am I naïve? Or do I come from a different era?I don't engage in politics; I have only voted once in my entire life and that was for Obama, first term. I don't associate with politicians. When my friends collect political appointments, I suspend the relationship. I don't do Obi's Zik or Kadiri's Awo! My heroes are Hogan Bassey, Dick Tiger, Fela, those who bring people from below together. I don't do ethnicity—I don't know the difference between an Hausa man or an Igbo man if both are poor.That one disagrees with someone does not mean you want them to die or you want their sons to die. I don't know of any human being that can offend me to a level that I wont greet him or share a drink if invited. Serious disagreements are part of life, but rejoicing at the calamity of another is evil. It has no other name.This new climate in Africa—of evil thinking—is going to set us further back. The development we seek cannot be outside of genuine love and compassion for other human beings. I don't like Trump as a politician, but I will never pray for him to lose his son. Indeed, I will cry were this kind of thing to happen.TF
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