Re: USA Africa Dialogue Series - Moderator's Gratitude

Dear Moderator,

Thank you so much for these words of wisdom. This is to wish you Happy Birthday and may you and your loved ones -- and everyone on this Dialogue -- enjoy the effulgence of an overflowing stream of joy, peace, good health, wealth and abundance.

Happy Happy New Year to everyone.

Obadiah Mailafia

On Fri, Jan 1, 2016 at 2:34 PM, Toyin Falola <toyinfalola@austin.utexas.edu> wrote:

Greetings to you all in the New Year! Silver and gold have I none…but words of affection are plenty, from me to you.

Today is also my birthday and if you are considering a gift, here is what I want:

1. Civility: do not insult anyone, either directly or indirectly. Supply your arguments, and let it rest there.
2. "Tribalism": Create your own "tribal list" and do your insiders' talk, even plan your wars if you want one, but there are some of us who think beyond this, who see all individuals as humans and citizens, who want everyone to live well and in peace. If you want only your "tribal fellow" to be the center of your life, generate your own list, leave this list, and respect some of us.
3. No private email to me: Due to declining energy, it has become difficult for me to be replying private notes. I receive almost 200 E-mail messages on a daily basis, and replying to them all, which I do, has taken a heavy toll on me. I am in good health, but there is no more high energy level to sustain many activities. I wont be replying to private email messages regarding the dialogue other than on subscription matters. No more such things as "why did you reject the post" or messages from me for you to re-write certain portions.
4. No anti-this or anti-that: There is no need to be anti -Islam, anti-Hutu, anti-Zuma, anti-this, anti-that. Give us ideas; tell us how to translate the ideas into practice; if you criticize Africa or a government, tell us how you will do things differently. 
5. Exaggerations: Caution is needed. I have declined posts that say 1000 Igbo were killed at Onitsha; 400 Hausa traders were killed at Aba. A reasonable person must not say something that is not correct and one that could let mobs organize to kill others. One time, I panicked over this kind of information, calling people all over the country to prevent conflict. It turns out that the postings are not correct. Exercise caution.
6. Armchair Diasporans: Many Africans abroad are now to be counted as among the enemies of Africa. You cannot be enjoying the comfort of your London or New York home and be talking about creating wars and conflicts in your places of birth, be abusing people who struggle to survive; traders who parade their wars; suffering poor, etc. If you cannot contribute to their lives and struggles in positive ways, just watch television in your private homes and let them live their lives in peace.

All best wishes for 2016.

Toyin Falola

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